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Eep! I almost died…

19 November , 2018

Of fright!

If you know me, you know that I am not scared of spiders. I am terrified of them!

So just imagine how traumatic it was for me when I was putting out fresh towels yesterday, and one leaped out of my towel and ran up my arm. I almost shat myself.

As it is, I screamed in a fashion that not even I knew I had the vocal range for. Towels went flying everywhere and I did that weird karate-breakdance-run out of the bathroom. Everyone came running cause they thought there was an intruder or I was under attack.

I was under attack…and if it was an intruder I wouldn’t have screamed…I would have punched them in the face.

Still not over it. Bloody traumatic!

Other than something bad happening to my people, this was my worst nightmare!

And to think, it must have been lurking in our linen closet for at least 2 weeks. Waiting to pounce! I feel so violated! Hahaha. No really…

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And in the blink of an eye, another month goes by

1 November , 2018

And what a month it’s been!

I don’t even know where to begin with this update…uhm…okay, lets start with work…

New secret place, is not that secret if you follow me on fb or LinkedIn, but anyway – new secret place is firstly not in one place. This has taken SOME getting used to on my part. The work is interesting, the people are polite and professional, and after a month I’m still not 100% sure I know exactly what’s going on, but I’m getting there and having fun while I do it.

As my new secret place deals mostly with art, I am seeing the most fantastic things. I really wish I could show some of them to you, but copyrights is a bit of a grey area and I’m actually not sure what I’m allowed to post and what not – so I’m erring on the side of caution until I get some clear guidelines.

Now onto home…

Home is fabulous! I have never been happier, and Nicola is blossoming with the new dad-figure in her life. Nicola and Andy have adopted each other properly. It gives me all the feels to see them interact. So much l

We had a little altercation with Nicola’s teacher during this month about the language she uses in class. She told the kids to shut their traps, so we went to discuss the fact that our noodle does not have a trap and that if she spoke like that at home, she wouldn’t be able to sit comfortably. Unacceptable. The teacher says she said it was a joke…we left her with her face-saver-excuse and a warning.

It was pretty momentous for me, the whole thing. This was the very first time ever that I did not have to do the parental thing at school on my own. Seems like a small thing to other people maybe, but to me it was huge!

Other things…

I have been robbed. Repeatedly.

Firstly, a deposit wasn’t paid back to me – and I’m actually entitled to it. Grrr…

Secondly previous secret place power-that-be decided that my 10 days leave wouldn’t be paid out. Just because. Apparently we don’t accrue leave when we work there. Also didn’t pay my travel claim. I think I’m being punished for not making the world domination dream a reality and for getting off the bus when I thought it was headed where I didn’t want to go. It was pretty tense at the end, sadly.

I am miffed about the whole thing, or things as it is. Money is now subsequently TIGHT. Especially since I got pro rata salary this month because of the 2 days I took to go camping with Nicola.

Anyway, since I am sick and tired of drama, I am letting it go and moving on. Karma will have to sort them out, I’m busy, and not in the mood to fight about anything. Luckily Andy works for himself and always manages to pull a rabbit out of a hat when he needs to.

And now on to some motivational stuff and photos! ๐Ÿ˜€

Love this…definitely worth remembering!

Also this…and true of everyone.

Uhuh…

Polka, who believes she is a cat evidently…

This I could tattoo on my ass for every person who ever saved it when I least expected them to! ๐Ÿ˜†

Did you ever see a Pin about sticking a rose into a potato and planting it to have your very own rose bush? We tried it…now we have a potato plant. ๐Ÿ˜†

Yup…

All the feels…these two make me go aaaawe every day…

We now have fish! We had the goldfish Cherry…but this guppy is new, Nicola named her Brooklyn. I have no idea why. Brooklyn is preggers. Actually Andy is pretty sure she dropped some babies already and the shark we had in the tank ate them. Apparently this is no biggy, in two weeks or so she’ll let loose some more (even though we don’t have a boy guppy).

The shark…aka Piet…aka Piranha Piet! You can just see the attitude in this pic, right? Piet has been relocated to a flower vase for the safety of the other two fish.

Look what Piet did to the goldfish! Luckily these fins grow back in about two days. Poor thing looks a bit ROUGH and terrified.

Polka, still playing house cat…

Okay sneak peak at some art, sort of. Nicola is chilling at a bench in front of one of our clients’offices. From one angle it looks like people reading and chilling and from the other angle it spells “Think”. Very cool actually. It’s supposed to be interactive art, but apparently security sometimes chase people off it. ๐Ÿ˜†

I’ve sat on the K and it’s actually pretty comfortable. Just the right height, even if it’s concrete. At sundown you get the most spectacular hues of orange and gold on the opposite buildings when you sit here. A great place to think…

Have you ever enjoyed an ice cream this much? So cute!

All the feeeeeeeels….

Summer means storms around here, and we’re all very excited. Even when there’s no lightning or thunder (my favourite parts), at least there might be puddles (Nicola’s favourite part) and everything cools down a bit (Andy’s favourite part).

Sometimes the small things are actually the big things…

Every night when I get out of the shower, Andy has a cup of coffee ready for me. I can’t tell you how much that means to me on a day where I feel like I’ve had the stuffing knocked out of me.

I don’t ask – he just does it, and many many many many other little things. He’s amazing. I get quite emotional about this.

Nicola, getting her paint on one lazy weekend morning…

I did tell you about the bees, right?

Anyway we cleaned these ones up a bit and sent them on the rounds to school and Voortrekkers so that everyone could get the chance to see a Queen bee in comparison to a woker bee…or as we found to our surprise two queen bees. I know they don’t look exactly the same on this photo, but it was a different angle and the one was obviously not completely mature yet.

Okay, that wraps up this catch up for now I guess. Don’t be strangers! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Chat again soon…

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Results are in!

8 October , 2018

I phoned and emailed and carried on with no results all day. The suspense was not great…

Eventually tracked down my GP in the hope that they maybe sent him a copy, and yay they did!

Not cancer – phew!

Something that can hopefully be cleared up with a SERIOUS dose of antibiotics and a follow up sonar.

My relief and thankfulness knows no bounds!

Thank you to each and every one who has messaged and or called and kept me in your thoughts and prayers.

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And then?

4 October , 2018

So…

Yesterday I went for that mammogram I told you about. In the week of having this situation hanging over my head my boob has just been acting stranger every day and taking my freaked-out-ness to previously unknown levels in the process!

I found the actual mammogram process the least painful/uncomfortable of everything I went through yesterday. If you haven’t been for one yet, don’t let pancake talk deter you…it’s not that bad at all.

Nothing odd found on the mammogram, and they followed it up with a sonar looking at everything breast and in particular at the area that was worrying me.

Not great news unfortunately. There was an unknown spot of something behind the nipple, about 2cm in diameter. This part was uncomfortable, but more due to this thing than the actual sonar obviously.

My stress levels were OFF THE CHARTS at this point and I was working my way through their supply of tissues.

The doc said next step was to try and asperate (this means sticking a needle in there and trying to draw out fluid). If it was an abscess then they’d do this and treat with antibiotics. If not then she would proceed to do a biopsy of whatever it was with a different tool.

The asperation attempt was insanely painful and completely unsuccesful. Not an abscess, no liquid. I grabbed the doctors wrists in reflex, which really made the nurse very jumpy.

More local anesthetic and then on to the biopsy part of this nightmare…

I should have the results back by Friday or latest Monday. The boob is SORE, not only from my mystery guest but also now the incision and the bruising. The medical staff at Millpark Radiology are amazing though, they really took good care of me and tried to keep me calm and sort of comfortable throughout the whole 2 hour ordeal.

Today I’m starting my new job. I hope I can keep my head clear enough to enjoy my first day and to rise to the new challenges.

Keep praying for me please, not sure for what other than some sort of easily sorted out result.

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Venterskroon 2018

3 October , 2018

These past few days we had the opportunity to attend our third Venterskroon camp with the Voortrekkers. This is our thing, really the one camp we make sure we never miss!

It was fun and sad at the same time for many reasons. Fun…because duh! Venterskroon! And sad for us personally because we missed Andy. He was supposed to come with but couldn’t due to work that had to be done. Bittersweet in general for many of the campers as one of the main organisers who everyone had camped with for many many years passed away shortly after last year’s camp. Whenever you saw someone looking a bit glum off to the side, it was usually one of those moments where they remembered what he would have done or said in this particular case. Lots of hugs were given, the kids seemed more or less oblivious to the undertone and just got on with enjoying their camp as they always do.

It was incredibly hot, dry and dusty. If you see that in the photos…imagine it at least 3 times hotter and drier and dustier than that! On the way there we almost thought we’d end up having a wet camp, since we drove through two storms on the way there…wet camping is not for the feint hearted, I’ll take the dusty over the muddy any day of the week.

Anyhoo, the photos tell the story much better than I can – so let’s jump straight in.

Nicola and bestie L at the start of the camp. You can tell because they’re still more or less spotless and their hair is brushed.

I lent my tent to Nicola and two of her friends to sleep in and set up in her tent instead. It’s just for sleeping in after all. I dubbed it the Barbie-dream-house tent and I’m sure I would have been perfectly fine in it, but Silezia took pity on me and insisted that I bunk with her instead in a more grown up tent, hahaha!

Estelle and I. Let the selfie fest begin! We helped out at registration and had a little catch up. Estelle was our course leader last year, and we have shared loads of laughs!

Tents, tents and more tents! This works fine. When I was a kid we usually camped in those massive army tents and the groups got mingled. I sometimes think that that might have been a better way to get to know other kids. (And to keep tents tidy)

Nicola and pals…

First assembly in the making. Look how clean everyone was!

Nicola and L in the queue for dinner. I love taking un-posed photos like these.

Marietjie and I – selfie. Marieks was in my team when we were in school. We’ve known each other FOREVER! Lots of great chats during the camp. Dankie Marietjie!

This is what about 500 hungry kids look like waiting for dinner.

Pretty sunset over the mountain.

Everyone is colour co-ordinated with hats so that it’s easy to spot someone who’s not where they’re supposed to be. Also somewhat helpful to keep the sun off your face. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Nicola’s team did the Spoorkennis badge this camp. Sort of like intro to tracking, and the course leader gave each of us a camo buff. Too cute, although it makes us look a bit dodgy. This thing is incredibly handy, let me tell you! It’s my first one so I was a bit oblivious to all it’s many uses, but I’m on it now and I don’t think I will ever camp without one again.

Firstly, you can use it as a scarf or mask – which is kind of obvious. If it’s super windy and cold, like it was on one or two evenings, you can pull it up under your cap to keep your ears and head warm too. You can also use it like ear muffs for when 500 kids are screaming team chants at each other, or when you go to sleep so that you don’t hear the wind howling round the tents. Apparently you can also soak it in water and keep yourself cool on hot days with it round your neck. I haven’t tried that yet, only cottoned on to that use on the last day – thanks Andries, it never even occurred to me!

Morning has broken. This was after my guard duty, just before the kids started stirring. You don’t actually guard, it’s more like being on the lookout for kids who sleepwalk, or cry or cough so that you can help them. Everyone gets a turn and it usually turns in to an interesting chat with people from other groups in the same shift as you.

Cutie pies…

My cutie pie…

K, L and Nicola – tent mates. Those girls don’t keep a tidy tent at all, hahaha! I actually made a decision not to go look after the first morning. It just made me twitch, and I didn’t want to deprive them of the opportunity to experience the big clean up on the last day.

Me, Nicola and Silezia…

Campers getting ready for the day ahead.

Elize, who was our course leader – doing morning Bible reading and chat with the kids.

Nicola doesn’t do cereal or bread or eggs, so camp breakfast food is usually a challenge for her. She won’t eat it. And then by 10:00 she’ll turn into captain cranky pants. So for everyone’s safety I pack her a little sandwich bag of biltong per day.

Elize and Willem, the two course leaders for our group. The group was soooo big they had to split it into two more manageable groups – 78 in total! And then within our group we further divided them into four smaller groups for when you need to follow tracks or spot animals.

Yummy breakfast one morning.

Learning about camo.

The kids got to paint themselves with shoe polish. Nicola went for the minimalist approach.

Wild things…

L with her camo face on…

N with the least amount of face polish on…

When in Rome and so on…

Off to go find animals in the ostrich camp.

We went in with the female, who left us to our own devices. The male is a bit more territorial as I understand it.

I think you can see how dry and hot it was there.

I just liked the look of this branch. So now you have to look at it too. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Taking a short break to drink water and catch our breaths.

Salt lick, thoroughly enjoyed by the animals in this camp. Imagine how much licking this thing sees to make the dents in that crystal.

I also just liked the look of this telephone pole. You’re welcome. Oh, obviously hardly any cellphone coverage in Venterskroon. If you’re on Vodacom you can get about three bars in two or three spots on the camp, but anyone on any other network had no chance whatsoever.

L-bestie nursing a knee graze.

Hungry kids ready for lunch. I felt like we were more or less eating all day, but we certainly burnt off all that energy. Very very busy!

Other L in camo. She went all out!

The sign for Go Home. I was very ready to head back to camp at this point. The other parent who was helping out at our sub-sub-group was very knowledgeable about all sorts of things and the kids learnt plenty – which is awesome – but I usually drive a desk in mild temperatures so the extra miles we walked in the blistering heat in search of this knowledge had my tongue on the floor with exhaustion.

As hot as it is there in general, the exact opposite is true of this pool. It’s very cold, and a great place to cool down after a never ending walk chasing springbok and blesbok around an ostrich camp.

Nicola and I at the pool…

You know I love these hand shots. Whenever I get the chance, I take it.

Silezia and a few of our girls…

Important to drink lots and lots of water! I think I drank about 3 liters or more a day myself. And I walked round watering anyone who looked a bit wilted too.

Bordesakkies…nothing says camping with the Voortrekkers like rows and rows of these bags. Everyone brings their own plate, bowl, mug and cutlery and this rack of pegs is where they live between meal times.

Oops, I’ve been spotted taking photos…

Isn’t it pretty?

And this…also pretty! Aren’t we lucky that we get to spend time in these wide open spaces? I love it!

Selfie with Nicola that she decorated to send to Andy…so sweet. Andy says we look like cute little terrorists with our buffs on. ๐Ÿ˜†

Giggles with tannie Maryna.

Another gorgeous sunrise…

Maryna’s hubby Chris, who is a tent master. I suggested that he present a course on how to put up and take down tents, because he is the only person who can get mine to fit in it’s bag like the manufacturers do. Actually he folds it so neatly, you could probably fit two tents in there!

Frikkie, Anna and Ex-Frikkie. Neither of the Frikkies are actually named Frikkie. It’s like a mix between a camp mascot and the ring master. Frikkies have to keep the program moving along smoothly and resolve any discipline problem between the kids. Anna is almost like the Frikkie of the grown ups, not so much the running of the program but resolving any disputes and keeping morale high.

She also keeps up a steady supply of hat decorations. Hoed foefies is what I’ve decided to call them. Everyone loves them and those who have been camping for many years look like Christmas trees!

Nicola and I. It was the 40th birthday of this camp, and there were many celebrations held. every camper also received a purple camp T-shirt as a gift.

The bus. I love riding the bus, it’s hilarious!

After morning parades the officers get on the bus and march up and down and do odd things in a very disciplined manner. It’s hard to explain, you need to ride the bus to fully understand its magic.

A sea of purple shirts…

Maryna and Maryna, at it again.

Oh my goodness, we had such a laughing fit during the course!

Elize was taking questions from the kids and one girl asked what should you do if someone gets bitten by a snake? Elize said that it’s very important to find out what kind of snake because the doctors needed to know what anti-venom to give the patient. Then she went on a bit about snakes in general, and I must have temporarily checked out a bit in my head from heat exhaustion. What caught my ear next was when she said, “How will you get him calm?” And I thought, the snake? Why does it matter what he feels like? She said, “First thing, get him to lie down…” and in my head I’m seeing a snake and thinking lying down shouldn’t be a problem since it doesn’t have legs. “And put him in the shade…” Oh no no no…this is very reckless, we shouldn’t be telling kids to move snakes. “So that his heart can beat as slow as possible…” aaaah, okay – I think she’s talking about the patient and not the snake.

I look at my fellow Maryna and I see she’s looking just as confused as I was, so I tell her it’s the patient and not the snake. She says, “Oh riiiight!” and we burst out into a fit of giggles imagining someone trying to calm down a snake by making it lie down in the shade. We could NOT stop laughing. I still giggle when I think about it actually.

French toast breakfast – yumm!

The girls…

Selfie with Elize…

On the Sunday they got this very high energy dominee in to do the service. This guy was amazing and so funny! I tried to take a video but something went a bit pear shaped with my phone just then (I think I ran out of space and it got flustered and flushed the video).

Seriously so good! If he was closer I would definitely go to that church.

Our course head quarters.

Frikkie came to have a friendly anti-bullying chat with the youngens.

More watering…soooo hot!

This kid was taking no chances with sunblock. Go big or go home, right?

Nicola and L…in the background you can see the inflatables that they got for the kids to play on as part of the camp birthday celebrations.

Anything can be a chair if you’re tired enough…

Maryna, literally hugging a tree for shade…

One of the other courses made these bird feeders. I just liked the look of it, so you get to see it too.

Love this T-shirt!

Maryna, me and Silezia…

My friend Ina, who spends most of her camp in one of the outside rough it groups.

She congratulated me on raising Nicola right, haha! Apparently she wanted Nicola to come give her a hug, and Nicola just told her “I don’t know you.” She thought maybe Nicola didn’t recognise her with the hat so she took it off. Nicola looked her up and down and said, “I still don’t know you.” ๐Ÿ˜†

To be fair, Nicola has met her…but doesn’t exactly KNOW her, hahaha!

Very peculiar, but very practical hiking shoes of M – she led our walk up the mountain and she’s as nimble as a goat!

Chris and Maryna…

Me, Mariska and Maryna…getting ready for our turn to dish up.

Andries leads the kitchen on this camp and the food is always amazing!

The girls, telling me about the wind that squished their tents during the night…

Mieliepap for 550 people in the making…

Me and Tanya. This woman is like an energiser bunny! And I don’t think I have ever seen her in a bad mood. If you could bottle this kind of spirit and sell it, you’d make a fortune!

The kids are woken up by horn in the mornings…

Maryna and Maryna, this machine runs on coffee and plenty of it. Although I had a lot less than last year!

Pap-worm! What a genius way to carry many pots with few hands! ๐Ÿ˜†

Poor Attie…the best signal was to be found in the smoking area away from the kids of course. He had work to do, so joined us for some second hand smoke.

Estelle, Maryna and Maryna…

Another yummy breakfast…

Our mountain hike…holey macaroni I’m unfit!

Ian and myself…

Ian and his baby L…

Venterskroon gifted L with this very special rock…so cute!

Mariska, Tanya and Silezia…

Myself and Anna…

Tanya and Liana…they are both energiser bunnies!

The kids prepping to make hand prints on the volleyball court…

Yumm…home, or errr camp-made ginger beer (no kick variety). This was really delicious!

Pretty evening star over the washing line…

Campfire concert on the last night…

The lighting ceremony…

Love this photo where you can see the sparks flying…

All the kids by fire light…that fire was HUGE!

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Mmmm, coffeeeeee…

At this point I was really super grateful that I didn’t end up in the Barbie dream house tent, since my legs were pretty useless after following the “she-goat” up a mountain. I couldn’t crawl into anything if my life depended on it!

A last night party for the grown ups to celebrate the camp’s 40 years and this particular camp.

Our last sunrise at Venterskroon for this year…

Last morning Bible session with the course…

Cutie pies at breakfast…you can now clearly see what hair looks like that hasn’t been brushed for 5 days. ๐Ÿ˜†

I liked this marshmallow tree they made…Estelle laughed at me when I said, it’s a little bit like life. Jy moet die soet saam met die steek vat. ๐Ÿ˜‰

A sea of purple…

Nicola’s hand print. Freshly liberated from the volleyball court.

Packing up time…

Camp closing ceremony…

I have a little bit of pebble envy for L’s heart shaped pebble, but I feel like I got a good one too. Strongly suspect this one might be a piece of meteorite, but even if it’s not then I still love it for the jaunty little stripe thing it has going on.

Nicola and I started a tradition a while ago, where we always pick one rock to take home for our bookshelf when we go somewhere on a vacation or an adventure. So this is our Venterskroon 2018 rock.

Thank you everyone! It was another fantastic camp and we’ll definitely be back next year for our annual top up of dust, fun, laughs and love…

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Oh Mammy…

27 September , 2018

Found a lump yesterday…booked for a squashing on the 3rd of October.

Not overly excited about this. Keep you fingers crossed for me please, or if it’s your thing pray.

I am low level FREAKING out!

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RIP Daphne Louw 9.11.1954 – 11.9.2018

12 September , 2018

We woke up to terrible news this morning that has left the whole family reeling…

My aunt Daphne passed away last night. Out of the blue. In the most bizarre way. She fell and swallowed her tongue. My uncle, was with her instantly, but even with extensive first aid training could do nothing to help her or revive her. Did you even know this was possible?! I didn’t.

It’s really hard to process, it still feels so unreal. They were going to come up from Betty’s Bay next week to meet their two new grandsons. Now we’re waiting to hear when the memorial services will be.

What can I say about my aunt? Well, I think my gran probably said it best before she passed away. She said, Daphne has a really good heart. So true. She was always willing to help everyone. She could always share a giggle with you about whatever was going on. She genuinely cared. She gave…from her heart…she made things, from penguin soft toys to personalised handbags, she propagated plants, she made my uncle eat coconut oil and gave him lectures about eating too much sweets, she kept in touch with everyone. When they moved down to Betty’s she sort of went a bit hippy. She was determined to be healthy on her own terms. She’d read endless articles on facebook about what was good for your health, while peacefully puffing on after another of her cigarettes in the process.

As the sort of unofficial family historian, and persistent taker of photos when you least expect it, I went through all my photos to look for a suitable photo for this post. It wasn’t an easy task. My aunt was always somewhere in the background, but she was always there.

She was the quiet backbone of this family…

Rus in vrede Tannie Daphne. Ons gaan jou verskriklik mis. xxx

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