21 May , 2018

She’s probably not going to hug you, unless she knows you really well, and even then…on days that she’s not feeling it she won’t.

And I’m not going to make her do it either.

You think you know her because I tell some of her stories and you see many photos of her, but she doesn’t really know you.

Respect her boundaries.

One day, someone is going to try and guilt her into showing them affection that she’s not feeling. On that day I already want her to know that it’s her body and she doesn’t have to.

If your feelings get a tiny bit dented in the process for her to be safer around potential predators in the future, I’m okay with that. Sorry…not sorry.



  1. This might just be my favourite post of yours ever šŸ™‚ I just totally want to pile 100 “likes” on it!

    • Awe, thank you Marcia! I was in two minds about writing it…but it’s actually something that comes up all the time, even with people who really should know better. šŸ˜‰

  2. Thats not even a negotiable!! Her body her choice. And are you serious people reading your blog make as if they know her? Thats a bit creepy…

    • It may sound creepier than it is, I guess. This happens with good friends of mine and even family actually, so at least not random strangers! (Yet)

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